TO MANDAP OR NOT TO MANDAP

Mandap do I have to have one? What’s protocol?

Slightly controversial question considering we provide mandap design as one of our key services, don’t you think? But, a good question. I’ve spoken to 5 brides this week. And, every time I’ve asked whether they would like a traditional mandap or more of an open style. Most of the brides said, “I need at least a 4-pillar square or round one, I think. I’m sure my mum will insist, it’s traditional”. However, the big question is, how important is a 4-pillar square mandap? And do you really need to have this as part of your wedding decor design?

Over the years we’ve spent a lot of time speaking to priests. Both at an event on-site when setting up mandaps. 

And here’s what we heard:

“You don’t necessarily need the full traditional structure – this has become a fashion item. But having something to represent the pillars at each of the four corners is sufficient.”

To me, this opens up creative licence. Instead of 4-pillars in a square (or circle) could you have an open mandap, a backdrop and then have choli’s or karas with a coconut on each corner to denote the 4-pillars? Could you put plants at each of the 4 “posts”? 

Here we’ve included an example of an open mandap style we set-up at The Great Barn in Harrow, Our lovely couple wanted maximum visibility and for the guests to focus on what was happening on the stage. Minimal distraction (photo credit to the awesome Nishit Parmar).

It’s a common question but don’t be afraid to experiment – it could open up a range of options and increase visibility of the ceremony in those venues that are a little bit narrower.

Get in touch to discuss!

All the best, 

Rina x